hot crazy

Wow... a lot of discussion came out of the last post...seems there are all different kinds of high maintenance and it is not necessarily a bad thing. Ok, to clarify, MY definition, as I was writing, was needy, clingy, selfish, diva...prone to drama and craziness, and always needing to be the center of attention (think: Britney Spears). I would consider that type of girl a pain in the ass, and therefore NOT ideal. I wasn't really talking about someone who must always look their best, who spends a lot of time and money on themselves, and who demands only nice things...although quite often the two do go hand in hand. The guys, apparently, were thinking more towards the latter, and they didn't see it as bad, unless taken to the extreme.

The general consensus was basically: Jaguars are high maintenance too, but we would whole lot rather have one of those than a Toyota Corolla. The whole discussion also brought up the "crazy hot scale" ya know, the idea that the hotter a girl is, the crazier she is allowed to (and most likely will) be. Guys will put up with a lot of shit for a hot chick.

Ok, let me just say this...I think everyone should take care of themselves and try to look their best. I don't have the time or money for manicures, hair extensions, botox, tanning etc, but I do try to look as good as I can, most of the time. If I have a party to go to, I put on a dress and take my time with hair and make-up...if, however, I am running to Walmart on Sunday morning, my hair is in a pony tail and I most likely have on jeans and a tee. I don't think anyone should be a church mouse doormat and let others take advantage or walk over them. There is nothing wrong (in my mind) with taking care of yourself first so you can offer up your best self to take care of others. There is nothing wrong (again in my mind) with being a little bit selfish, a little bit crazy, or the center of attention, ONCE IN AWHILE...anything taken to the extreme though: not a good idea.

And now, you will have to excuse me...I need to go put my hair in a pony tail and throw on some jeans...which means; I will NOT look hot, and therefore, NOT be actin' all crazy like (not today anyway).