match.yuck

So, I don't know if I am cut out for this whole Match dating thing. When I started it, it was just a bunch of abstract guys, all seeming to want me, and ooh la la, fun. Well, now it is real...now I have met two of them, and one of them I like....now there are feelings, and questions, and confusion. Ok, so Matchdate #2, who is nickname worthy now so I will call Coach, and I had a great date last night...like I said earlier we exchanged a bunch of emails, a few phone conversations before hand, and the profile is pretty good about putting it all out there as far as general likes, dislikes, job, familial status, all that. All the stuff that could, if you just met someone out, take weeks to find out. If I HAD met him out, we sparked, and then went on a date, and had SINCE had all these emails and calls I would think we were at the start of a relationship...nothing serious of course, and not necessarily exclusive, but definitely starting something. With Match, I have NO IDEA...I don't know if he really likes me OR NOT, and to ask at this point would sound desperate and crazy, but at the same time I really want to know cuz I have 3 other emails in my inbox that I don't know how to respond to. I have 3 other seemingly great guys (although I have no idea, really) wanting to take me out this week. Do I go and see if there is a spark with them as well or turn them down and risk the Coach pulling the fade on me and being left high and dry? I know I should probably just go and have fun and all that, but that just isn't me. I don't want to go around smoochin' on a bunch of guys, or worse, sitting across the table from someone I have no desire to be with when I could be with friends or the Pea.

I wish it were like in 7th grade...I could send an email "I like you, do you like me...circle yes or no." Maybe I will send that suggestion to the folks at Match...have an after date questionnaire.